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Mating Straight Talk!
Please join our conversation about relationships, male-female differences, sexuality, and gender politics within a scientific and evolving cultural framework. If you are curious about human mating behavior and evolutionary psychology, you are in the right place. You will also find “straight talk” about attraction, sexual psychology, and heterosexual mate choice.
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I look forward to connecting with you.
Steven Fearing
Recent Blog Posts
Charlie Kirk vs. Richard Reeves: Messages To Young Men
As we process the tragic death of Charlie Kirk, let’s not debate the content of his character; instead, let’s acknowledge and understand the content and legacy of his ideas. ~ S.F. Charlie Kirk was a powerful voice that spoke to young men in America. As author of over...
The Price of Love? The Movie ‘Materialists’ Keeps It Real
I'm looking for a man in finance – trust fund, 6’5”, blue eyes.”~ Man in Finance* – music by Billen Ted Sometimes a movie or TV show comes around that I must acknowledge and comment on. Poor Things got my attention. And Barbie got everybody's attention and two posts...
Wokeism: Good, Bad, and Misguided – a View from Mate Selection Science
Prologue and Caveat – Let’s Be More Woke Before I get into the issues of non-binary advocacy and problems with contemporary “wokeism,” as promised last week (What Does Non-Binary Mean? Biology and Politics Collide), I must revisit the true meaning of “woke” and...


